Narcissist Devalues, Discards What He Craves Most: Shared Fantasy as Reaction Formation

The narcissist’s shared fantasy is a form of reaction formation: s/he ends up devaluing and discarding that which s/he craves most. The narcissist is conditioned as a child to expect love only subject to performance and the suspension of the self. So, s/he dispenses with what s/he craves most – a maternal figure - in order to earn some love. Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: