Todd V Programs LIVE DEBRIEF AND Q+A 05/29/22 Пикап тодд mentoring program

(0:43) Can you talk about “being entitled“, and how it can help or hurt you in game. Feel free to include examples. (4:54) How do you personally screen girls and figure out if they’re worth spending time on? What do you screen for? (online and live game) (10:53) (Live follow-up question) So how do you frame that telephone conversation? Or how do you bring it up? (11:51) Sometimes I feel “too good“, I know the really advanced things to do but how might I “level“ myself on purpose? When did I’ve forgotten the leveling behaviors? (13:25) How do you typically respond after a tease is received poorly? Sometimes I’m not sure if they’re actually offended or if it’s a shit test. (16:36) If a girl has no incentive to care about qualifying herself to you in the evaluation phase, which step of the system did I mess up? what should I have done differently? (21:00) How to stop doubting your attractiveness and value in game when girls reject you, look at you weird, etc? how do stop self-attacking when that happens? (24:05) I’m too nice. Girls often say: I hope you find a good girl. How should I turn it around? (25:53) Could we vary the exercises for different aspects of the system? Like maybe giving shit tests, disqualifying, cold reads. (26:20) How to make her feel like she needs me more than I need her? (28:04) What do you see guys do wrong with their delivery when trying to emulate your verbal game style? (30:30) When asked ‘are you adventurous’, a girl says ‘it depends. What is meant by adventurous? How to handle it? (32:04) (Live follow-up question) I had a presubmitted question and it was the only one not answered. (32:29) What is the best way to approach seated sets in a nightclub environment? Especially when the music is loud and it’s difficult to hear everyone in the set? (34:18) I feel that, too often, girls know they can have me. I think I need to directly compliment girls less, and push-pull more. Would it be a reasonable challenge for me to only compliment girls in the context of push-pulls for a while? Like always pair it with a negative spike if I get the urge to compliment her. (36:26) Can you talk about keeping relationships casual/ friends with benefits? How do you frame it for girls? (38:40) When it comes to online dating, how many inches would you say is acceptable to add to one’s height? I’m not a tall dude, I’m 5’3” without shoes, would putting 5’6” be reasonable, or is that too much? (41:59) Hey Todd, a few days after you came to New York this chick was smiling at me at the airport. We chatted and exchanged info before I left. Turns out she’s some UFC star. I was a beginner and didn’t let her know I had a penis. We DM’d on Instagram every now and then. (42:19) In the spirit of yesterday just wondering how would you turn this platonic conversation into a date? Probably just chalk it up to learning but curious if there’s a win here. Thanks. (43:26) How to respond when she says self-deprecating things? (44:39) Explanation of exercise (45:36) How do you get yourself to appear as if you don’t have an agenda when your goal clearly is to sleep with the girl and possibly be fwbs, and have a relationship with her? Seems like a contradiction. (48:44) Exercise (48:46) First student (53:00) Second student (56:41) Third student (58:20) Fourth student (59:29) Fifth student (1:01:54) Sixth student (1:03:46) (Live follow-up question) I approached a girl yesterday. She was sitting down and I approached her standing up. As soon as she started asking me questions I just answered the question as I was speaking and I just sat down. Without acknowledging the fact I was sitting down and talking to her. And I found this works pretty well. (1:05:00) When calling a girl from Online Dating to screen, do we use the OPEN-C model over the phone or do we wait to use that model during the actual date? If we wait to use it for the date, what do we talk about on the phone? Just small talk with some premise injected throughout? (1:06:22) I also want to know if she says things like “I feel you’re too good for me“ or if she’s clearly nervous about being attracted. Which by the way is where that question I asked was coming from, I see now the solution isn’t to reduce my value but build more comfort. I really fixed some core things in my game and my value has gone up tremendously, do you think a more normal conversation with interesting biographical stuff is a good way to build comfort?