Todd V Dating LIVE DEBRIEF AND Q+A 04/03/22 пикап тодд менторинг

(0:12) Any advice for guys who are a little introverted? Been rejected many times telling me that “you are too quiet for me sorry“. Any advice on how to deal with this? (0:50) I assume before evaluation she must accept the premise. Any practical things I can do to get her to accept the premise? How to know if the premise is accepted? (4:18) Hey Todd. What do you think about the philosophy of “always act like there’s a 10 around you“? (5:32) As a beginner, any tips on how to quickly recover and calibrate after getting a negative or “no“ response without ruining the flow of the interaction? (9:40) What is your favorite country to do game in and why? (And does it differ when you think about daygame vs nightgame vs online)? (12:44) Let’s do Exercise (12:54) Shit Test Exercise (13:40) Do you say this to all the girls? (15:39) Do you work on Wall Street? I’m really into like bankers and stuff. (18:48) Isn’t my friend so hot? You should totally buy her a drink. (21:54) You’re just kind of big and gangly, you’re not my normal type. (25:18) I’ve only slept with two guys in my life and I don’t kiss on the first date. (26:45) What do you think about approaching a girl who’s walking by calling her from behind “Excuse me!”, thus making her stop and turn around? I never hear you mention that option but that’s how I would do it with a friend. And it feels more assertive and entitled, and less awkward and gamey compared to first walking until I’m next to her. Another benefit is that you get her to stop right away. (28:54) How do you game when you are feeling mildly depressed or sad about something? Sometimes it’s hard to just ignore these things and put on a good show. As someone more attuned to emotions this can be a problem. I tend to do not as well. Is staying at home okay sometimes? (32:13) What do you think about using an impersonal indirect opener (asking for directions, a lighter, etc) and then throwing in a man-to-woman statement? I feel that it might be a good way to come across as less gamey and less like you have an agenda. It feels more like the encounter ‘just happened’. (35:13) Can we do the frame control exercise where you banter back and forth with the student and the first person who qualifies themselves, loses? (36:12) Should you force yourself to not act introverted even if you come off incongruent? (38:56) Where can I go to meet more 9s and 10s in a large city? (40:36) My apologies if this is too personal, but I wonder how you set up your own relationship. I’ve heard you mention that you’re in an open relationship. Does that mean that your girlfriend/wife also sleeps with other men, and are you fine with that? If so, how did you manage to outgrow sexual jealousy? (43:42) So does adding “umm” and “uhh” actually help the delivery? (44:36) As an Asian guy, it is very easy for me to get Asian girls online too. Not just for white guys. (45:09) What are the biggest texting mistakes post number close for an online game? (46:15) I don’t give my name to strangers. Is that a shit test? (46:52) You just want to sleep with me. (47:00) Do you have some negative premise examples after the open? I say I usually don’t date certain types of girls, or “I don’t like you yet but you don’t seem boring“. I want lighter ones that don’t get the “I have a boyfriend“ response right at the start though. (49:42) In a previous call, you mentioned that if I find a book about the general conversation for the gaming community. You will review the book briefly. I recently read one about negotiation and think it’s good. The name has Never Split the Difference. Could you take a look at it? (51:21) Hi Todd. Two days ago I asked a question in the section “Ask a coach“ but no coach answered. (52:31) How would you recommend approaching girls in the day when there’s a large distance between you, you’re walking towards each other, and it’s somewhat clear that you’ve seen her? Especially in situations where the opening at a distance might be socially uncalibrated i.e. a quiet mall passage. My instinct is to “pretend” I didn’t notice her and open her when she’s about 3-4 meters from me. (54:43) Can you recommend any books that are written in high-value language? (55:55) What is your opinion about a polygamy family-like 3 wives living together, regardless of financial issues, have you ever considered having it? (57:00) Can you revisit the old school concepts taught in game-like “self-amusement“ and “freedom from the outcome“? Do you still agree with those teachings, and if not, what would you teach instead? (59:30) How to be congruent with a polarizing online bio? (1:02:50) Follow-up: How did you manage to frame your relationship such that your girlfriend felt emotionally compelled to give you sexual freedom,
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