Weekly Q&A #20 — 11/17/21 Todd V Programs Пикап тодд mentoring program

Date: 11/17/21 (1:54) What’s the best way to screen out early on girls who aren’t adventurous and sexually open? I don’t want to waste too much time on those girls. (4:06) Usually when I grab her number it feels like the end of the interaction. How to get her number early on without actually ending the conversation so I can instant date? (8:24) If a girl has already been to your place before (no sex due to LMR, but you were chill about it), but wants to go on a date the second time, should you next her? (10:38) My daygame phone number response rate is 1/10, my set is generally friendly, do you think this ratio is too low? How should I make the girl chase me more? (13:07) If you end up at a party where everyone knows each other & already has established social value EXCEPT you (outsider); tips or advice on mentalities to have? (15:35) I showed too much player vibe, turned off a conservative nerdy college girl. How should I turn it down and calibrate better in a similar situation next time? (18:04) Any tips on how to not let bad emotions from getting rejected from previous sets carry on to the next one? (20:46) Is conveying to the girl that you have a lot of attractive girls into you, an effective way to get her to chase? If so, why? (23:14) You said, don’t say what kind of relationship I want, just imply it. But when the girl explicitly asks, how do I respond? I just want to keep it casual. (25:13) How to overcome the fear of failure and what others think? Not afraid to talk to girls, but of looking stupid, others thinking I’m sex crazy, etc. How to deal with this? (29:14) Moved to a new place with lots of cute girls, any other way I can game that place without becoming “that guy“? (30:37) Hey Todd, how do you deal with rude girls in set who are not shit testing? (33:01) During nightgame I recently found myself doing a 2-set alone. Conversation went well, I flirted with my girl and befriended the other. I asked how they knew each other and found out they were childhood friends. I didn’t know how to pull my girl in this situation, since the other girl was staying with us, so I ended up getting the number. Is it possible to pull alone from a 2-set and how to do it? (35:49) What if I have no success in life? What frame or value to adapt that is attractive? (38:10) Hey Todd, we often hear about men judging women sexually and how it’s an issue for them. Is the opposite also true? Sometimes in set, I kind of feel judged for flirting and being sexual, or is it usually a shit test? (39:50) Hey, Todd How do you deal with weird girls that play games they show interest and then disinterest show up on dates and flake on other dates, with no sex involved? (43:25) Should I game at my job? I work at target and some girls like to say “Hi!“ to me, but wondering if I should pull the trigger and game. If so, how would I do it in an appropriate manner? (46:07) What are some useful ways to use eye contact in game? Do you know any good exercises to train eye contact on my own? (47:42) Serious question: do you only own black long sleeves? (52:18) Hey Todd, when a girl takes hours or days to respond to your messages, is it a sign of disinterest or is it normal? And in case it takes 1 day or more, how fast should I respond to the girl? (54:28) Last week you said that not caring about being uncalibrated can actually be good. Can you elaborate? (55:42) Just got rejected 7 times today. Feels good :)) (55:58) On dates, I have trouble balancing between showing interest and losing value, because not being a win for the girl and showing disinterest or playing hard to get leads to the date becoming friendly. (57:20) If the girl “accidentally“ finds that you have a lot of hot girls in your life, and confronts you about it, what’s the best way to answer that? (59:23) How do you get past the first rejection if she interrupts your open with “I have a boyfriend”? Tease her about answering something you haven’t asked and switch to indirect opener, see if she responds when you persist? (1:00:40) After sleeping with a girl, should you hide the fact that you’re also sleeping with other girls from daygame in the same week? I never tell girls that, but I feel like I’m being dishonest if I don’t. (1:02:20) What are the steps to go on an instant date? (1:03:08) (Inner game) Any tips on how to develop unconditional love for yourself without the need for validations from others, especially women? I only feel good about myself if things are going well (doing well financially, having a rotation of girls). (1:06:07) What are some pull excuses to pull the girl to the room you recommended? Seeding by some things unique at your room earlier and pull with that is good enough?.