❤ HEART TO HEART WITH SINGLES | PASTOR AARON BAMANA

10 MOTIVATIONS THAT MAKE A MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP ACHIEVED /party 1 Speaker: Pastor Aaron BAMANA (HEART TO HEART WITH SINGLES) Hebrews 13:4 For all singles who want to commit, be aware that you are heading towards something or the creator is demanding the greatest respect God only asks for respect and honour for the institution of marriage We can say that 80% of people who divorce entered marriage with bad motivations They happen to start relationship after relationship because after two or three months nothing works, it is important to ask this; What did we not understand? Responsibility does not begin in marriage but well before that Three phases before talking about marriage • OBSERVATION PHASE (the presentation): Admire the person, be seduced by photo or by seeing him This phase does not mean that you are going to get married; here we talk about observation but it is useful because it allows you to know how the person presents himself and his entourage • APPROACH PHASE: when the observation convins you we now go through the approach This makes it possible to distinguish if the person is insolent or to show us his attitudes and behaviour because it is very important to know that beauty can be reduced and that only behaviour can count Q. WHY CANCEL A RELATIONSHIP FOR AS LONG AS YOU COULD DETECT IT LONG BEFORE? Because we rush things we don’t talk about marriage in the approach phase let’s take our time • PHASE OF THE JOURNEY: Attitude ok, Behaviour ok, He (she) speaks to you politely, insolence 0️⃣ The journey is not the engagement they simply help us to address the subject We leave the friendly relationship we can confess these feelings and present them to the family because the church does not marry people it is the family the church only blesses and the State registers it So let’s maintain our relationships with our families to talk about the term of the marriage Q. BUT HOW DO YOU KNOW IF IT’S THE RIGHT PERSON? The 10 Motivations that make us succeed in marriage 0. THE DETERMINATION OF HONOURING GOD 1Samuel 2:30 We honour God in 2 parts: ⁃ Choose in the Lord: let’s be reassured that our partner is Christian, it is essential ⁃ Sanctification: Do not lie down before marriage The marriage promise does not guarantee marriage let’s not be ready to give everything up just for a promise 0. DETERMINATION NOT TO WANT TO PROVE TO OTHERS (Ex) Matthew 27:40 It is not necessary to prove what you already are as in our time posting on the networks is a serious mistake especially if you are not officially married Because when you post you expose yourself to everything they have said, the outside adversity and it can maybe close the door to the right person 0. DON’T BE AFRAID TO STAY SINGLE OR HAVE NO CHILDREN Families can rush you, especially if others get married before you so don’t act in a hurry at the risk of acting like a desperate It is important to know the motivations of your partners for the marriage Marriage is not a purpose but the beginning of a new life Even if we are not married we can make a career, to focus on ourselves and on God No matter how long it will take the certainty of your relationships to lead to a patient marriage because it’s for life